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    20/10/2009

    Die Lorelei

    Die Lorelei
                                               --- by Heinrich Heine
     
    Ich weiß nicht, was soll es bedeuten,
    Daß ich so traurig bin,
    Ein Märchen aus uralten Zeiten,
    Das kommt mir nicht aus dem Sinn.
    Die Luft ist kühl und es dunkelt,
    Und ruhig fließt der Rhein,
    Der Gipfel des Berges funkelt,
    Im Abendsonnenschein.
     
    Die schönste Jungfrau sitzet
    Dort oben wunderbar,
    Ihr goldenes Geschmeide blitzet,
    Sie kämmt ihr goldenes Haar,
    Sie kämmt es mit goldenem Kamme.
    Und singt ein Lied dabei,
    Das hat eine wundersame,
    Gewalt'ge Melodei.
     
    Den Schiffer im kleinen Schiffe,
    Ergreift es mit wildem Weh,
    Er schaut nicht die Felsenriffe,
    Er schaut nur hinauf in die Höh''.
    Ich glaube, die Wellen verschlingen
    Am Ende Schiffer und Kahn,
    Und das hat mit ihrem Singen,
    Die Loreley getan.
     
     
    27/12/2008

    I Care About You

      I'm thinking about you.
     I care what happens to you.
    I want to share your sorrows
    and sing your joys.
    I'm here to talk
    whenever you need me.
    Always remember
    how important you are to me.
    Know that you are loved.
    Have a bright, beaming,
    bette-than-average day!
    12/12/2008

    Lord's prayer

    Our Father, which art in Heaven
    Hallowed be thy Name
    Thy kingdom come
    Thy will be done, in earth as it is in heaven
    Give us this day our daily bread
    And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us
    And lead us not into temptation
    But deliver us from evil
    For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever.
    Amen
    17/11/2008

    Wordsworth's poem

    Ode On Intimations Of Immortality
     
     
    What though the radiance which was once so bright
    Be now for ever taken from my sight,
    Though nothing can bring back the hour
    Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;
    We will grieve not, rather find
    Strength in what remails behind;
    In the primal sympathy
    Which having been must ever be;
    In the soothing thoughts that spring
    Out of human suffering;
    In the faith that looks through death,
    In years that bring the philosophic mind.
    27/08/2008

    The Catcher in the Rye

          J. D. Salinger said, "And I'm standing on the edge of some crazy cliff. What I have to do, I have to catch everybody if they start to go over the cliff --- I mean if they're running and they don't look where they're going. I have to come out from somewhere and catch them. That's all I'd do all day. I'd just be the catcher in the rye and all."
    03/05/2007

    你最爱的人,往往没有选择你。。。。。。

    遇到你最爱的人,然后体会到爱的感觉;
    因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人;
    当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的,
    也才会找到最适合你,能够相处一辈子的人。
    你最爱的,往往没有选择你;
    最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;
    而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,
    只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

    没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你,
    可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了,
    他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你;
    同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
    当一个人不爱你要离开你,
    你要问自己还爱不爱他,
    如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开;
    如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐,
    希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止,
    你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了,
    而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢?
    爱不是占有.

    你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里,
    但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
    换句话说,你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有,
    让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆,
    如果你真爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好,也爱他的坏:
    爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,
    绝不能因为爱他,就希望他变成自己所希望的样子,
    万一变不成就不爱他了。

    真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的,
    你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你;
    真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。
    毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得;
    分开是一种必然的考验,
    如果你们感情不够稳固,只好认输,
    真爱是不会变成怨恨的...

    06/04/2007

    Corporate Life

    Would you appreciate 3 essential lessons on Corporate Life???

    LESSON 1

    A junior manager, a senior manager and their boss are on their way to a meeting. On their way through a park, they come across a wonder lamp.

    They rub the lamp and a ghost appears.

    The ghost says, " Normally, one is granted three wishes but as you are three, I will allow one wish each "

    So the eager senior manager shouted, " I want the first wish. I want to be in the Bahamas, on a fast boat and have no worries ."

    Pfufffff, and he was gone?shy; .

    Now the junior manager could not keep quiet and shouted " I want to be i n Florida with beautiful girls, plenty of food and cocktails ."

    Pfufffff, and he was also gone ?shy; .

    The boss calmly said, " I want these two idiots back in the office after lunch at 12.35pm ."

     

    * LESSON I - MORAL OF THE STORY IS: "ALWAYS ALLOW THE BOSSES TO SPEAK FIRST"*

                      

             

             

    LESSON 2

    There were these 4 guys : a Russian, a German, an American and French, who found this small genie bottle. When they rubbed the bottle, a genie appeared?shy;

    Thankful that the 4 guys had released him out of the bottle, h e said, " Next to you all are 4 swimming pools, I will give each of you a wish. When you run towards the pool and jump, you shout what you want the pool of Water to become, and then your wish will come true ."

    The French wanted to start. He ran towards the pool, jumped and shouted "WINE". The pool immediately changed into a pool of wine. The Frenchman was so happy swimming and drinking from the pool.

    Next is the Russian's turn, he did the same and shouted, "VODKA" and i mmer g ed himself into a pool of vodka.

    The German was next and he jumped and shouted, "BEER". He was so c ontented with his beer pool.

    The last is the American. He was running towards the pool when suddenly

    He steps on a banana peel. He slipped towards the pool and shouted, "SHIT!!!!!!!........."

     

    * LESSON II - THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING, BECAUSE SOMETIMES ACCIDENTS DO HAPPEN.*

                      

     

     

     

    LESSON 3 MY FAVOURITE!!!

    The organs of the body were having a meeting, trying to decide who was i n charge. Each organ took a turn to speak up:

    Brain......... I should be in charge because I run all body functions .

    Blood........ I should be in charge because I circulate oxygen for the brain .

    Stomach... I should be in charge because I process food to the brain .

    Legs......... I should be in charge because I take the brain where it w ants to go .

    Eyes......... I should be in charge because I let the brain see where it's going .

    Asshole..... I should be in charge because I get rid of your waste .

    All the other parts laughed so hard and this made the asshole very mad.

    To prove his point, the asshole immediately slammed tightly closed and

    Stayed that way for 6 days, refusing to rid the body of any waste whatsoever?shy;

                      

    Day 1 - Brain got a terrible headache and cried out for relief

    Day 2 - Stomach got bloated and began to ache terribly

    Day 3 - Legs got cramps and became unstable

    Day 4 - Eyes became watery and vision became blurred

    Day 5 - Blood became toxic and poisoned the body

    Day 6 -The other organs agreed to let the asshole be in charge.

             

    * LESSON III - MORAL OF THE STORY: NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, OR HOW IMPORTANT YOU THINK YOU ARE, YOU WILL FIND THAT IT IS ALWAYS THE ASSHOLE THAT IS IN CHARGE.*

     

    04/04/2007

    人生警言八十句

      哼哼,近来,凡是在我SPACE里出现的相当严肃的话题,都是我老妈发给我的,目的是让我在上海过的不要太得意忘形。。。。汗。。。

     

    01.每天告诉自己一次,『我真的很不错』。

    02.生气是拿别人做错的事来惩罚自己。

    03.生活中若没有朋友,就像生活中没有阳光一样。

    04.明天的希望,让我们忘了今天的痛苦。

    05.生活若剥去理想、梦想、幻想,那生命便只是一堆空架子。

    06.发光并非太阳的专利,你也可以发光。

    07.愚者用肉体监视心灵,智者用心灵监视肉体。

    08.获致幸福的不二法门是珍视你所拥有的、遗忘你所没有的。

    09.贪婪是最真实的贫穷,满足是最真实的财富。

    10.你可以用爱得到全世界,你也可以用恨失去全世界。

    11.人的价值,在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定。

    12.年轻是我们唯一拥有权利去编织梦想的时光。

    13.青春一经典当即永不再赎。

    14.没有了爱的语言,所有的文字都是乏味的。

    15.真正的爱,应该超越生命的长度、心灵的宽度、灵魂的深度。

    16.爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切,却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

    17.当一个人真正觉悟的一刻,他放弃追寻外在世界的财富,而开始追寻他内心世界的真正财富。

    18.只要有信心,人永远不会挫败。

    19.不论你在什麽时候开始,重要的是开始之後就不要停止。

    20.不论你在什麽时候结束,重要的是结束之後就不要悔恨。

    21.人若软弱就是自己最大的敌人。

    22.人若勇敢就是自己最好的朋友。

    23.『不可能』只存在於蠢人的字典里。

    24.抱最大的希望,为最大的努力,做最坏的打算。

    25.家!甜蜜的家!天下最美好的莫过於家。

    26.游手好闲会使人心智生锈。

    27.每一件事都要用多方面的角度来看它。

    28.有理想在的地方,地狱就是天堂。

    29.有希望在的地方,痛苦也成欢乐。

    30.所有的胜利,与征服自己的胜利比起来,都是微不足道。

    31.所有的失败,与失去自己的失败比起来,更是微不足道。

    32.上帝从不埋怨人们的愚昧,人们却埋怨上帝的不公平。

    33.美好的生命应该充满期待、惊喜和感激。

    34.世上最累人的事,莫过於虚伪的过日子。

    35.觉得自己做得到和做不到,其实只在一念之间。

    36.第一个青春是上帝给的;第二个的青春是靠自己努力的。

    37.少一点预设的期待,那份对人的关怀会更自在。

    38.思想如钻子,必须集中在一点钻下去才有力量。

    39.人只要不失去方向,就不会失去自己。

    40.如果你曾歌颂黎明,那麽也请你拥抱黑夜。

    41.问候不一定要慎重其事,但一定要真诚感人。

    42.人生重要的不是所站的位置,而是所朝的方向。

    43.当你能飞的时候就不要放弃飞。

    44.当你能梦的时候就不要放弃梦。

    45.当你能爱的时候就不要放弃爱。

    46.生命太过短暂,今天放弃了明天不一定能得到。

    47.天才是百分之一的灵感加上百分之九十九的努力。

    48.人总是珍惜未得到的,而遗忘了所拥有的。

    49.快乐要懂得分享,才能加倍的快乐。

    50.自己要先看得起自己,别人才会看得起你。

    51.一个今天胜过两个明天。

    52.要铭记在心;每天都是一年中最美好的日子。

    53.乐观者在灾祸中看到机会;悲观者在机会中看到灾祸。

    54.有勇气并不表示恐惧不存在,而是敢面对恐惧、克服恐惧。

    55.肯承认错误则错已改了一半。

    56.明天是世上增值最快的一块土地,因它充满了希望。

    57.理想的路总是为有信心的人预备著。

    58.所有欺骗中,自欺是最为严重的。

    59.人生最大的错误是不断担心会犯错。

    60.把你的脸迎向阳光,那就不会有阴影。

    61.经验是由痛苦中粹取出来的。

    62.用最少的悔恨面对过去。

    63.用最少的浪费面对现在。

    64.用最多的梦面对未来。

    65.快乐不是因为拥有的多而是计较的少。

    66.你的选择是做或不做,但不做就永远不会有机会。

    67.如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊,可能一辈子找不到朋友。

    68.不如意的时候不要尽往悲伤里钻,想想有笑声的日子吧。

    69.把自己当傻瓜,不懂就问,你会学的更多。

    70.要纠正别人之前,先反省自己有没有犯错。

    71.因害怕失败而不敢放手一搏,永远不会成功。

    72.要克服生活的焦虑和沮丧,得先学会做自己的主人。

    73.你不能左右天气,但你能转变你的心情。

    74.孤单寂寞与被遗弃感是最可怕的贫穷。

    75.想像力比知识更重要。

    76.漫无目的的生活就像出海航行而没有指南针。

    77.好好扮演自己的角色,做自己该做的事。

    78.一切伟大的行动和思想,都有一个微不足道的开始。

    79.得意时应善待他人,因为你失意时会需要他们。

    80.学做任何事得按步就班,急不得。 

    28/03/2007

    十年

    十年以前别人的笑话常常让我捧腹大笑 
    十年以后只有老板的笑话才能让我捧腹大笑----即使已经听他说过八遍了 
     
    十年以前我以为我的生活至少有500种可能 
    十年以后我知道我的生活只有两种可能、晚上回家吃饭和晚上不回家吃饭 
     
    十年以前同学见面,大家说:进步 进步 学习进步 
    十年以后同学见面、大家说:发财 发财 恭喜发财 
      
    十年以前常常很傻 
    十年以后常常很会装傻 
      
    十年以前别人告诉我一个故事,我假装不信,其实我是相信的 
    十年以后别人告诉我一个故事,我假装相信,其实我是不信的 
     
    十年以前以为孩子是一个奇迹 
    十年以后知道母亲才是一个奇迹 
     
    十年以前我认为需要很多人的爱 
    十年以后我才知道很多人需要我的爱
    13/02/2007

    My Love

    ++++
    I can see us holding hands
    Walking on the beach our toes in the sand
    I can see us on the country side
    Sittin' on the grass laying side by side
    You can be my baby
    Let me make you my lady
    Girl you amaze me
    Ain't gotta do nothin' crazy
    See all I want you to do is be my love
    So don't give away   ,my love
    So don't give away   ,my love
    02/02/2007

    值得你珍惜的人

    当你遇见以下十种人一定要珍惜
      1.遇到你真正爱的人时---要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会.因为当他离去事,一切都来不及了.
      2.遇到可相信的朋友时---要好好和他相处下去.因为在人的一生中,可遇到知己真的不易.
      3.遇到人生的贵人时---要记得好好感激,因为他是你人生的转折点.
      4.遇到曾经爱过的人时---记得微笑向他感激,因为他是让你更懂得爱的人.
      5.遇到曾经恨过的人时---要微笑向他打招呼,因为他让你更加坚强.
      6.遇到曾经背叛你的人时---要跟他好好聊一聊,因为若不是他,今天你不会懂这世界.
      7.遇到曾经偷偷喜欢的人时---要祝他幸福呦!因为你喜欢他时,不是希望他幸福快乐吗?
      8.遇到匆匆离开你人生的人时---要谢谢他走过你的人生,因为他是你精彩回忆的一部分.
      9.遇到曾经和你有误会的人时---要趁现在解清误会,因为你可能只有这一次机会解释清楚.
      10.遇到现在和相伴一生的人时---要百分百感谢他爱你,因为你们现在都得到幸福和真爱.
    20/01/2007

    Where to Take Women on Dates

       When you get a number from a really attractive woman and want to organize a date with her,you need to be smart. If you want to GET her,then you can't just take her out for a drink,a movie or a nice candle-light dinner. Why? Because it doesn't make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you.
       You can't just do what every other guy has done before you. If you do,then you will get what all the other guys she has dated got too: a kiss on the cheek and a new female friend.
       And we don't want that to happen at all costs!
       So,in order to be successful when it comes to the initial date,you need to do something unlike most men. Don't spend any money on her...that just shows her that you want to BUY her affection. A very bad idea! It never works.
       You see,most guys assume they need to take a woman on an expensive and lavish date for her to like them,with candles and moonlight and everything she has seen in the movies. But women don't get that attraction feeling in their stomach when you do what everybody else does.
       That's why she is going on a date with you...to see if you are different! So give her what she wants.
       So where do you take her?
       Go to the park,tag her and say "you're it" and let her chase you. Go windows shopping and let her decide what would look good on you. Say "Do you think that bikini over there would suit me? Nah...I think I'm just a little but too sexy for that don't you think so?" *evil grin*.
       Try stealing something from her like cigarettes,make-up...anything and make her fight for them back. If you are playful about the whole thing and just have fun,she will get attracted to you just like that.
       Oh,and then,there is tickling. This NEVER fails to attract a girl even more towards you. Don't ask me why but it NEVER fails,as long as you have built up some attraction already.
       What about the confidence? Well,you can show her you are confident just by teasing her and jokingly ordering her around. You can show that you make decisions and you aren't afraid of what she thinks of you.
       Then there's the surprise element. Instead of saying "Would you like to go to the park? I know,it doesn't sound too good but it can be" try saying "Let's go to the park,I'll even get you some sweets so you don't have to steal them".
       Now I know many of you guys will like the sound of taking a girl to a park because it's cheap and that's true. You don't have to spend a single dime. Does it work? You bet...where do you think I take all my dates? It's always shopping,then a cup of coffee or the park.
       Forget the candle-light dinner,the cinema and your regular bar for the first date. Stick to what works and what is best for creating attraction: The city,coffee shops,and the park.
       It never fails.
                                                                              ------by Nick Shane
     
       Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating.
     
    22/12/2006

    Soctares and Lovelorner

    Socrates(S):孩子,为什么悲伤?
     
    Lovelorner(L):我失恋了。
     
    S:哦,这很正常。如果失恋了没有悲伤,恋爱大概也就没有什么味道。可是,年轻人,我怎么发现你对失恋的投入甚至比对恋爱的投入还有倾心呢?
     
    L:到手的葡萄给丢了,这份遗憾,这份失落,你非个中人,怎知其中的酸楚啊。
     
    S:丢了就丢了,何不继续向前走去,鲜美的葡萄还有很多。
     
    L:我要等到海枯石烂,直到她回心转意向我走来。
     
    S:但这一天也许永远不会到来。
     
    L:那我就用自杀老表示我的倾心。
     
    S:如果这样,你不但失去了你的恋人,同时还失去了你自己,你会蒙受双倍的损失。
     
    L:踩上她一脚如何?我得不到的别人也别想得到。
     
    S:可这只能使你离她更远,而你本来是想与她更接近的。
     
    L:你说我该怎么办?我可真的很爱她。
     
    S:真的很爱?那你当然希望你所爱的人幸福。
     
    L:那是自然。
     
    S:如果她认为离开你是一种幸福呢?
     
    L:不会的!她曾经跟我说,只要跟我在一起的时候她才感到幸福!
     
    S:那是曾经,是过去,可她现在并不这么认为。
     
    L:这就是说,她一直在骗我?
     
    S:不,她一直对你很忠诚。当她爱你的时候,她和你在一起,现在她不爱你了,她就离去了,世界上再没有比这更大的忠诚。如果她不再爱你,却还装得对你很有情谊,甚至跟你结婚、生子,那才是真正的欺骗呢。
     
    L:可我为她所投入的感情不是白白浪费了吗?谁来补偿我?
     
    S:不,你的感情从来没有浪费,因为在你付出感情的同时,她也对你付出了感情,在你给她快乐的时候,她也给了你快乐。
     
    L:可是,她现在不爱我了,我却还苦苦地爱着她,这多不公平啊!
     
    S:的确不公平,我是说你对所爱的那个人不公平。本来,爱她是你的权利,但爱与不爱你则是她的权利,而你却想在自己行使权利的时候剥夺别人行使权利的自由。这是何等的不公平!
     
    L:可是你看得很明白,现在痛苦的是我而不是她,是我在为她痛苦!
     
    S:为她而痛苦?她的日子可是过得很好啊,不如说是你为自己而痛苦吧。明明是为自己,却还打着为别人的旗号。
     
    L:依你的说法,这一切倒成了我的错?
     
    S:是的,从一开始你就犯错。如果你能给她带来幸福,她是不会从你的生活中离开的。要知道,没有人会逃避幸福。
     
    L:可她连机会都不给我。你说可恶不可恶?
     
    S:当然可恶。好在你现在已经摆脱了这个可恶的人,你应该感到高兴,孩子。
     
    L:高兴?怎么可能呢,不管怎么说,我是被人给抛弃了。
     
    S:被抛弃的并不是就是不好的。
     
    L:此话怎讲?
     
    S:有一次,我在商店看中一套高贵的衣服,爱不释手,店主问我要不要。你猜我怎么说,我说质地太差,不要!其实,我口袋里没有钱。年轻人,也许你就是这件被遗弃的衣服。
     
    L:你真会安慰人,可惜你还是不能把我从失恋的痛苦中引出。
     
    S:时间会抚平你心灵的创伤。
     
    L:但愿我也有这一天,可我的第一步该从哪里做起呢?
     
    S:去感谢那个抛弃你的人,为她祝福。
     
    L:为什么?
     
    S:因为她给了你忠诚,给了你寻找幸福的新的机会。
     
    说完,Socrates走了。留下的路便由这位失恋者自己去走了。。。
    13/12/2006

    The Constitution of Love Code

    If you love someone,show them and say so!
    STATEMENT:If a kiss is the language of love,then we have lot to talk about!
     
    METHODS OF LOVE:
    Kiss on the ear="I'm horny"
    Kiss on the cheek="We're friends"
    Kiss on the hand="I adore you"
    Kiss on the shoulder="I want you"
    Kiss on the lips="I love you"
    Kiss on everywhere else="Let's get busy"
    Holding hands="We can learn to love each other"
    A wink="Let's get it on"
    Slap on the butt="Watch out"
    Playing with the ear="I can't live without you"
    Arms around the waist="I love you too much to let go"
    Pulling hair to head="Tell me you love me"
    Looking into each other's eyes="Let's get romantic"
    Holding on tight="Don't let go"
     
    ADVICE:If you are kissing someone,close your eyes.It's not nice to stare!
     

    错爱一生

      人生下来就是,错上加错,没有醒悟,没有爱,更没有一个基本的爱。从始至终的都是她自己,她恨所有的人,所有能夺走她宠爱的人。她说她的身体不会留着低贱的血液,她不能容忍卑微的出身。我不知道她最后的时间所做的决定是否能弥补她错的日子---那些噩梦般的日子挥之即去了。她回到了她的天堂。没有爱没有恨的世界里,只有她一个人孤独地沉睡着。
                                                                                                 -----顾忆罗
     
      由内而发的品质,完全捏造出高品质的人。
                                                                                                 -----陈想南
    11/12/2006

    Melody

    Tears In Heaven
    Would you know my name if I saw you in heaven?
    Would it be the same if I saw you in heaven?
    I must be strong and carry on.
    Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven.
     
    Would you hold my hand if I saw you in heaven?
    Would you help me stand if I saw you in heaven?
    I'll find my way through night and day.
    Cause I know I just can't stay here in heaven.
     
    Time can bring you down,time can bend your knees.
    Time can break your heart,
    have you begging please,begging please.
    Beyond the door there's peace I'm sure.
    And I know there'll be no more tears in heaven.
                                                       ------Eric Clapton
     
     
     
    I amYours
    I am yours.
    However distant you may be.
    There blows no wind but wafts your scent to me,
    There sings no bird but calls your name to me,
    Each memory that has left its trace with me,
    Lingers forever as a part of me.
    I am yours.
                                                       -------Eric Clapton